The downfalls of not making yourself clear.

We all wanna stand out, be heard, to have a voice. Sadly this is nothing but a mere dream to some of us. We so quickly find out that when we don't use our god giving voice, well guess what? We are heard. And sometime we come across where we have spoke up,but guess what again? It was not made clear what it was we were trying to get across. Bottom line is: "yeah it sucks." People today so easily get things twisted, meaning They hear what they wanna hear and the heck with the rest. Everybody wants respect when it comes to there feelings, thoughts and overall viewpoint on life. But that seem to be something we just don't get as much today. So what to do, that doesn't involve stabbing someone to an inch of there life just cause they made it seem like you have this major issue that really just only amounts to nothing? Well it very simple. MAKE YOURSELF CLEAR! THE FIRST TIME! Don't leave room for a person to feel in any blanks, especially when there is no room for blanks. You are not a human mad libs. So don't be treated like one. Plain and simple, put a side the fact that they may not like the fact you are about to tell them: "NO , I don't wanna hang out with you!" See how simple that is, and if somehow they find room in that firm, clear statement that you didn't mean that, then maybe you should grab the nearest knife.(lol) Really it's all about you not playing game with serious matters that could come back and bite u in the butt, cause you were too nice or too scared or whatever the reason to set the matter straight from the get go. Trust me I would know. It's been the story of my life a few times. And EVERYTIME I felt so stupid that I didn't make myself clear. Don't leave your book open so someone can just come right in and mess your thinking up, your sleeping pattens, eating habits and etc. The list goes on and on. It's really up to you! ;D So go out there and make yourself clear and forget what all those mellow-dramatic people think. You can do it!!!!!
xoxo
Vikki J

The right way to get it right.

How do you get something right the first time. This can apply to a relationship, choosing a place to eat, etc. etc. Bu my whole thing is when it comes to this why is it that all my personal ave. are like a one way street sometimes...What is that about???? How do one cope with the fact they lead to one common spot. Now I'm not saying failure but just an end that I'm not always happy with. I guess that's all part of that thing called life. It's super simple, you get out what you put in. with in many of our cases is alot or not so much. (lol) Anyways I guess it is all about finding that middle ground and when you do just using it to help you rise above whats keeping you down. Just something I'm trying to do these day. I'll tell you if it works out for me later. :)